I Help You Transform Your Codependency Into Confidence

Codependency helped you survive the nightmare of abuse and neglect from that toxic parent or spouse.  And now you're seeking your freedom, confidence, and peace.  I can show you how to make this happen easily and painlessly without unnecessary cost, time, or effort. 

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Codependency Is A Result Of What Happened To You - NOT Who You Are

I help you make sense of it and then heal and thrive beyond it.

As a certified mentor with 10+ years of experience & a survivor of narcissistic abuse and neglect, I help you release the unconscious shame and programming that keeps you stuck in codependency.

If you fear the judgments of others, find yourself exhausted from pleasing others, you put other people's needs before your own, and you struggle to "know what you want" and "who you are", know that these are the RESULTS of what you've gone through.

The shame, the fear, the guilt are not a result of who you are.  They are how you've been programmed to feel about yourself. They are the LIE!

The TRUTH is THIS: You are worth knowing, loving, and keeping.

To discover this for yourself, you need to achieve 5 specific milestones:

  • MILESTONE ONE: Release the dominant emotion (aka Governing Value) that keeps you stuck in codependency.  Typically this is shame, guilt, fear, or fatigue.
  • MILESTONE TWO: Integrate the love that completes you.  This way you refer to and experience yourself through love rather than shame.
  • MILESTONE THREE: Discover the Real You.  This liberates you from the need to have others approve of you, define you, and fills in that massive sense of emptiness and lack of self.
  • MILESTONE FOUR: Reshape and re-program your Mindsets and Emotional Habits to promote curiosity, confidence, and love for yourself.
  • MILESTONE FIVE: Master the 10 essential skills that unleash your happiness and your healthiest relationships and life path.

This is all possible because Codependency is actually a coping mechanism you developed to survive LOVE NEGLECT.

Yep!  Codependency is NOT:

  • A flaw in your nature (you were NOT born this way)
  • Your identity (who you really are is worthy, valuable, desirable and brilliant!)
  • A disease you have to cope with (you're not flawed and trapped in coping with this for the rest of your life. You can be FREE!)

It is a coping mechanism - a way you survived the neglect, the abuse, the crazy-making, the intensity, chaos, and instability of your primary relationships.  It is not your fault and it is not who you are.

Discover more about I help you achieve these 5 milestones in my free on-demand workshop, "How I Transformed Decades of Codependency into Resilient Confidence, Freedom, and Peace (and how you can, too)".  Just sign up below!

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DISCOVER THE SYSTEM THAT CHANGED GINGER'S LIFE

4 months from drowning in love addiction, deep codependency and shame to soaring in freedom, confidence, and peace. Be like Ginger and break through today.

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I WANT TO HEAL & THRIVE

You're ready to heal and move forward into the live you deserve.  You are committed to investing and taking any necessary action for your healing.   Take my free workshop to start you on this journey.

 

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I WANT TO UNDERSTAND

Abuse leaves us confused, lost, and feeling worthless.  Start understanding what has happened to you and begin healing today.

Discover that you're not crazy, not worthless, and how to heal from the nightmare you've survived.

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I WANT SUPPORT

You're not alone, and you're not crazy.  Join a thriving community of individuals who've faced what you are, who have survived it, and are healing and thriving in their lives despite it!



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Discover how you can affordably, quickly, and deeply transform your codependency into a lifestyle of confidence, peace, and freedom.

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Stop coping. Start thriving.  That is what you deserve.  Learn how getting closure in your trauma sets you free.  Apply for a free consultation.

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I'VE GOT YOUR BACK

I've been where you are right now.  Feeling lost, crushed, maybe even hopeless.  I had struggled with healing for over 20 years. I sought out therapy, self-help and more without success.

10 Years ago I discovered the process that I use today to heal and thrive beyond codependency and the abuse of my past.

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Marshall Burtcher
Mentor to Survivors of Narcissistic Abuse & Childhood Emotional Neglect

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